Selena Gomez has just announced her engagement to record producer Benny Blanco, sparking joy among her fans.

“Selena Gomez is finally getting her happy ending,” one user on X remarked. Another said, “Everyone is supporting and celebrating her engagement. Selena is truly loved and cherished.”

The positive reactions are understandable, considering the challenges the 32-year-old “Only Murders in the Building” actress has faced throughout her life. She’s openly discussed mental health issues, dealt with lupus, and had a highly publicized relationship with Justin Bieber that ended in heartbreak.

Still, some people are puzzled about her choice of partner. One user on X noted, “Selena Gomez marrying Benny Blanco is like the most attractive girl in college dating the unexpected, random guy,” which is a mild critique compared to other more superficial comments.

Regardless of opinions, those who follow celebrity culture often find connections to their own lives through the highs and lows of famous individuals.

Kevin Chapman, founder of the Kentucky Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders, pointed out, “Being viewed as a ‘people’s champ’ means many fans feel excited for her, given her struggles. Yet, they might also assume they know what type of partner would be right for her.”

‘She’s Never Looked Happier’

If you’re feeling conflicted about her engagement, know that it’s normal to compare yourself to others. However, this can easily become overwhelming.

Chase Cassine, a licensed clinical social worker, explains, “In today’s digital age, people face unrealistic beauty standards as they scroll through filtered images that portray perfect lives, which can lead to negative feelings, low self-worth, and mental health challenges like anxiety and depression.”

This might explain why Gomez’s fans feel so invested in her happiness. Despite her struggles, including a bipolar disorder diagnosis, she has managed to find joy in life.

“Once I understood my mental health, I felt a sense of freedom,” Gomez shared a few years back at the White House. “Talking about mental health in media or sharing personal stories can help. It shows that it’s a subject worth discussing openly without stigma.”

Her devoted fans are thrilled to see her contentment. “In all my years of supporting Selena, I’ve never seen her look this happy,” a user stated on X.

Avoiding Projections on Selena Gomez

He suggests that fans maintain an open mind about her experiences.

“People often perceive her life as ideal, which comes with a lot of scrutiny,” Chapman explains.