AUSTIN, Texas — Roughly 20 miles away from where Matthew McConaughey passionately supports his cherished longhorns at The University

As I approach the Miraval Austin Resort and Spa, the impressive trees lining the road seem to intertwine, creating a welcoming embrace that conveys a sense of safety.

I arrive on a pleasant October Friday for Making Space: A Wellness Weekend featuring Hoda Kotb, organized by the well-known anchor from “Today” and supported by Miraval. Visiting Austin again brings back nostalgic memories of my college days. I reminisce about my first year in 2005,when I felt an overwhelming sense of opportunity, as if I could float. This city also marks the beginning of my first significant relationship, where my heart loved passionately without the burden of heartbreak.

As I drive through the picturesque hills, I’m reminded of how my life at 37 is so different from what I envisioned two decades ago. I’ve yet to meet my soulmate. There are no children spilling Cheerios in the back seat of my SUV. I find myself curious about what the weekend has in store and what experiences I’ll gain from it. Reflecting on those moments days later, I’ve come to understand that they provided me with something essential that I hadn’t even recognized as a need. This aligns perfectly with Kotb’s interpretation of wellness as “the missing piece.”

Before the event kicks off, there’s an interview taking place. Kotb describes life as carrying “a heavy backpack” with you all the time. She explains, “Bit by bit, it’s like you’re unloading stones from your backpack, and you start to feel lighter.”

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Kotb shares her experience, saying, “At that breathworks class, I felt like I was on the verge of collapse. When she placed her hand on me, it provided exactly what I needed.”

As the exercise concludes and it’s time to hug our partners, I let my defenses down. During earlier activities, my goal was to be a supportive presence for others. However, now I’m open to receiving comfort and savoring the warmth of a stranger’s embrace. Eventually, I start to withdraw slightly from the hug, feeling self-conscious that I might be overstaying my welcome in this unfamiliar person’s arms.

She holds my head gently in her hand and pulls it to her shoulder—something I’ve never experienced before.

I’ve gathered several memorable moments from the weekend, including singer Rachel Platten inspiring the crowd at Friday’s concert by reminding them to pursue their dreams. She revealed that her popular song “Fight Song” didn’t gain attention until a year after it was released. However, it was the breathwork session and the insightful words shared by Jamie Kern Lima, co-founder of IT Cosmetics, on Sunday that truly made an impact.

Kern Lima opens up about her vulnerability in front of an audience, recounting a time when a potential investor dismissed her because of her appearance. The investor stated, “I just don’t think women will buy makeup from someone who looks like you with your body and your weight.”

In reflecting on this experience, Kern Lima expressed feeling overwhelmed by years of body image issues and self-doubt. She shared, “It almost felt like I was staring my own fear straight in the eye.” Despite this challenging moment, she recognized that the investor’s view was misguided. Ultimately, Kern Lima triumphed by selling her company for $1.2 billion in 2016.

“When we start paying attention to all the rejections,” Kern Lima addresses the audience, “we often find ourselves living in disguise, even though we’re right out in the open.”

She encourages us to recognize how we might be concealing ourselves. Personally, I realize that I’m hiding my feelings and aspirations. Kern Lima prompts us to reflect on what this concealment has cost us: a genuine existence, happiness, and meaningful connections.

One suggestion encourages us to find a way to stop hiding in plain sight today. I decide that I’ll start by communicating genuinely and having the courage to express my feelings. Shortly after Kern Lima’s presentation, I get an opportunity to put this idea into action when I’m interviewing her and Kotb unexpectedly walks in.In this moment with Kotb and Kern Lima, after soaking in their insights alongside those from Platten, Shriver, and other speakers, I allow myself to seek what I desire most: a photo that captures the essence of this weekend spent with two inspiring women who ignited my passion.

Typically, I shy away from requesting photos from celebrities. Some may regard this as unprofessional behavior for a journalist. Personally, I struggle with the thought that I should minimize my presence and not impose on their hectic schedules. However, after an uplifting weekend, I decided to give myself the green light to ask for a photo that I’ve since referred to as “the dream sandwich.” While it may not end up in the Louvre, it will have a special place in my office.